“Be positive. Be true. Be kind.”
Everyone advises, to be positive. So you try to stay positive. Am I right?
But how will you stay positive all day long? So here I give some practical tips based on what I learned from my experiences.
One thing is for sure; if you follow these practical tips daily, then you can stay positive all day long.
Take responsibility for your life.
Take responsibility for your life. What does it mean? It means you take charge of your life. When you do so, you don’t blame others for your life. You not only take responsibility for what had happened in the past or what happens at present, but also, you take responsibility for what will happen in the future. When you do so, you see all hope in life. You stay positive.
Set a goal, meet it, and celebrate it.
Let me tell you why? When you don’t have any goals, you don’t know where to reach. So you reach nowhere. Why so? If you don’t see the goal, how will you focus your energies? So they scatter everywhere. When you set goals, you focus your energy on how to reach your goal. Once you do so, a powerful stream of positive energy flows within you. As a result, you reach your goal at once. Then you celebrate your success. Why so? Every celebration inspires you to do better in the next attempt. So you get more success.
Count your blessings and be grateful.
Make a habit of listing good qualities you own. Then, show your gratefulness to those who have helped you in acquiring those qualities. Do it silently just before going to bed. Once you show gratefulness, then you show positive emotions only. So you say no to negative emotions. So you feel so positive and happy. As a result, you stay in a positive state of mind. You sleep a sound sleep.
Keep good relationships at home, workplace, and society.
The study shows how long will you live depends on how much good relationships you keep up. More the good relationships you keep, the less the conflicts you face. Less the conflicts, less is your negative energy. Less the negative energies, the more positive energy you have. Once you have more positive energies, then you live longer. So you need to stay positive in your personal life, work-life, and social life.
Keep promises at any cost.
When you promise to someone, you must keep it. Let me tell you why? Once you keep promises to someone, you make a deposit in your emotional bank account. More deposits you make, you make the bank account grow. Similarly, more promises you keep, you build your emotional account more. So every relationship grows strong when you keep promises. Then people respect you. So you feel good, and people also feel good. Do you know why? The positive emotions flow both ways. So keep promises at any cost.
Do you know all the physical assets depreciate with time? But, you and we, the human assets, appreciate with time, once we learn. Where can you learn? You can do so from your teachers, parents, wife, son, employees, friends and so on. Even you can learn from a tree, a flower, a mountain, and a river so on. Moreover, you can learn from books. But you need to switch on your learning mode. Why so? It makes you positive. So you can learn new things.
A cluttered environment blocks your energies. So, when you work in a cluttered environment, your brain can’t think clearly. As a result, you can’t act and work efficiently. When you do housekeeping and reorganizing in your house or workplace, it removes the blocked energies. As a result, your working spaces, mental spaces, working conditions, as well as the morale of employees improve. So your anxiety reduces and your sleep improves. Your productivity and creativity improve too. So you stay positive.
Reading books expands your mind. Once expanded, your mind does not return to its original state. Once you read books, you reduce your stress by around 68 %. So your brain relaxes and your health improves. Then, why don’t you make a habit of reading books? If you want to make this habit, then please read my post –Reading books: How to make a habit for details.
Know your employees
When you find the time, interact with your employees. If time permits, go for one to one interaction, listen to them with empathy, and ask for their suggestions. Once you do so, they open up, share their views, and take part in discussions. As a result, you know your employees. Then you know how to inspire them. So you stay positive.
Practice meditation or mindfulness
Why help others? Helping others is a great virtue. It not only allows you to help others directly but also benefits you. It certainly enriches your lives, purifies you, and keeps you ahead in your spiritual journey. Both of you and others feel good. So, positive emotions flow both ways. You can read my post- https://livefabulouslife.com/2018/06/14/helping-is-important-for-ourselves-also/for details.
Catch your employees doing something right and praise them in public.
The employees of your shop work hard to increase production. When you praise them in public, you inspire them to work harder. When you inspire them, positive vibes radiate from you. To put it differently, you stay positive.
Listen to your favorite songs.
A great song can instantly uplift your mood. How it uplifts, you can have an idea in my post- A great song can make you feel good. Once you feel good, you stay positive.
Self-development helps you grow. How? Initially, It improves your self-awareness, knowledge, skill, and behavior. Finally, it improves your self-esteem, confidence, Productivity, and effectiveness. These elements make you positive and help you grow.
Practice positive thinking
“Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.”
So, why don’t you avoid negative thinking and practice positive thinking? Please follow the tips given in the book in link-https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Power_of_Positive_Thinking if you want success in every area.
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