Life problems make our lives miserable. So we need to solve them. But is it possible? Yes. It’s possible.
Some people always complain like this. I am not feeling well; my relationships don’t work, and so on. Problems I face are the integral part of whatever I do. Why do they do so? Because they think that their problems will go away on their own. But in reality, things don’t happen so. Some people can’t live with their problems. What do they do? They solve their issues. Now, to which group do you belong?
Living with problems
What happens to the first category?
They live with fear and so with the problems. They fear to face them and take no actions. So they wake up in the morning with the issues, go to their workplace and find only problems. In other words, they live with their problems.
Why? They don’t take action in time. In the end, the problems seem bigger to them. So they develop stress within them. Sometimes continuous pressure makes them people with a mental health condition.
Instead of taking suitable actions in time, sometimes they blame others for their problems. Thus they enter into a vicious cycle of fear, inaction, and blaming and finally live with tons of issues.
Life problems and you
You probably belong to the second group. So you can’t live with your problems. Because you solve all of them.
When you don’t love and accept yourself as you are, your self-esteem goes down. Then you see everything as a problem. Nothing goes right for you. But when you take the necessary steps to improve your self-esteem, then everything goes right for you. Then your proactive attitude, positive mindset, confidence, knowledge, and skill improve. And it creates your problem-solving approach. It makes you restless until you solve your problems. Then you live a comfortable life- a life without problems.
If things don’t happen as you want, your efforts will undoubtedly bring out your best version. In this version, you are effortless in decision making, problem-solving, and taking suitable actions. Then your problems vanish at once. But you may raise the questions given below.
What are those efforts that update my version?
How to acquire sufficient problem-solving knowledge and skills?
So you pay the price to learn the required knowledge and expertise and apply them.
What to learn? You learn to anticipate and define the problem. When you identify a problem correctly, you move close to the solution.
Then you learn different problem analyzing techniques, use them to know the root causes of the issues. Then you generate alternative solutions, evaluate all alternatives, choose the best option, and finally implement and review it.
So love yourself, accept yourself as you are. Then you will be proactive, positive, and confident enough to solve your problems. Say no to life problems.