Never let someone influence your life. Why so? Please read the post and will know the answer.
All of your well-wishers may influence your life. They include your parents, spouses, children, brothers or sisters, friends, teachers, and so on. But in life, you can not avoid interacting with different persons from your society other than the above. They may be right for you. Even they may be toxic to you.
Never let someone influence.
Then what to do? In every situation, please make a list of persons with whom you interact. Then decide who is your well-wishers among them. If a person appears not to be your well-wisher, then for sure, please avoid his company as quickly as possible. Otherwise, they will play with your life and may make your life complex.
Why avoid?
The road of life ahead does not go straight. It has many curves and bends. So you can cot drive your car at a constant speed. Sometimes at the curves and bends, you decide to slow down your vehicle and take extra care there. These curves and bends sometimes come in the form of toxic people, negative people, or stressful situations. Then what you do? You take extra precautions, and you become careful. If you don’t become careful enough, they will start influencing your life. Then how to become careful? How much care you are depends on how much you anticipate the toxic and harmful activities they may perform in the future. So never let them take control of your life. Instead, control your own life.
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So never let the persons excluding your well-wishers influence your life. If you follow this guideline, you can get rid of unnecessary hassles in your life, and in the end, you can simplify your life. If you feel difficulty to act so, you will make your life complex.